Why do we make stupid choices and wrong decisions just to maintain family prestige in this stone heart world.
There are number of instances where people feel so happy or content while showing off their money, big house, luxury car, knowledge big degree's, beautiful skin, frequent visit to costly restaurants...even kids are not left behind from this show off game. To these people it doesn't matter whether they can afford all this or not but they will build pressure on their family or partner to fulfill their demands. So, that they can maintain their reputation among their relatives and neighbors.
I feel pity on these people who can't understand that your family is the only one who should be more important to you not your relatives and neighbors. It doesn't matter what they think or feel about you.
I feel so sad for these people who are trapped in this false pride game and do not know when to say NO to this never ending game. I have seen parents shifting to luxury apartments just to get their daughters married rich house or why you want to show that you can afford this much spending on marriage And in order to do this, god knows what all sacrifice they do. They will not take care of basic educational , emotional needs of their their kids, but will make sure that they wear branded clothes and serve non veg dishes to their guests.
I wish they learn when and how to say "No" to this never ending game and stop getting bothered what our relatives and neighbors would think about us. You can not control other's thought but you can control your's.
Think about it!
There are number of instances where people feel so happy or content while showing off their money, big house, luxury car, knowledge big degree's, beautiful skin, frequent visit to costly restaurants...even kids are not left behind from this show off game. To these people it doesn't matter whether they can afford all this or not but they will build pressure on their family or partner to fulfill their demands. So, that they can maintain their reputation among their relatives and neighbors.
I feel pity on these people who can't understand that your family is the only one who should be more important to you not your relatives and neighbors. It doesn't matter what they think or feel about you.
I feel so sad for these people who are trapped in this false pride game and do not know when to say NO to this never ending game. I have seen parents shifting to luxury apartments just to get their daughters married rich house or why you want to show that you can afford this much spending on marriage And in order to do this, god knows what all sacrifice they do. They will not take care of basic educational , emotional needs of their their kids, but will make sure that they wear branded clothes and serve non veg dishes to their guests.
I wish they learn when and how to say "No" to this never ending game and stop getting bothered what our relatives and neighbors would think about us. You can not control other's thought but you can control your's.
Think about it!
Food for thought, definitely!
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